What to say to someone who accuses you of "racism" when you express a preference for the company of people of your own racial or ethnic group.

The system that controls our lives knows that people who are fully conscious are a threat to its existence. To prevent people from attaining full consciousness, the System is forcing us to choose people who aren't from our own racial or ethnic group as our intimates. People who comply with the System and try to force themselves on people not from their own racial or ethnic group are doing so for the rewards offered by the System. People who prefer their freedom and are not tempted by the System's rewards to choose their friends from people they feel no attraction to or interest in are labeled "racist."